Thirty-three years ago, I got sober.
It was determined for me.
I was sitting in jail after a wild night of drinking, facing the possibility of spending the next 10 years in prison.
Through divine intervention, I side-stepped a lengthy incarceration.
But I had a lot of parameters placed around me for the next couple of years.
It was the worst and best thing that ever happened to me.
I haven’t even had a traffic ticket since that time.
And I transformed into a completely different person.
It wasn’t easy.
Throughout the ordeal, I gained clarity, resilience, and a deep appreciation for the simple moments.
Then, just a few years back, challenges I never expected showed up.
Eleven surgeries in 18 months.
Kidney stones, open-heart surgery, 2 septic shock surgeries, losing a kidney, and 2 more heart attacks.
It was a season of vulnerability and uncertainty.
I gained heartfelt gratitude for…
The doctors, nurses, and loved ones who cared for me,
My body’s ability to heal, after all the trauma,
And most of all,
Profound lessons that taught me…
Life is precious.
Show up every day with intention.
Our true purpose is to love and encourage others.
Sobriety and faith shape the way I view the world.
Appreciation lives at the center of my being.
This Holiday season, I invite you to reflect on your journey.
What are you grateful for this year?
The answers will remind you how far you’ve come.
Related Blogs
What’s Holding You Back?
You live in a world that demands your attention.Swept away in the rush of your life and you often measure your worth by what others think about you.What if the real secret to discovering your potential is within yourself?Here's how inward reassessment changed my...
The Essence of Your Vitality
I’m reflecting quite a bit lately about vitality.How it’s more than just physical health.It’s a vibrant energy that touches every area of my life.This became clear 33 years ago when I was in jail for my drinking.Released a few months later, I noticed the little things...
Are You Paying Attention?
I was in a coffee shop this week and saw a guy talking.His friend nodded absently as her eyes gazed at the phone.He continued, hoping his enthusiasm might catch her interest.It didn't.After a few minutes, he took out his device, and the spark in his eyes dimmed.They...
What Do You Believe?
There’s a true story about two brothers who grew up under the same roof.Their father was serving a life sentence for murdering a liquor store cashier who "got in his way."One brother became a reflection of his dad.Addiction and a life of crime landed him in prison for...
Your Treasure in the Darkness
Bob Cutshaw owned a shop in North Carolina selling stones to tourists.He had the knack of spotting rocks people would buy.One day, he encountered a unique stone while hiking in the mountains.He couldn’t discern what it was.So he tucked it away in his closet, thinking...
From Loss to Light
Today, I want to share a dark chapter of my life.It led to the brightest dawn I never could imagine.I should’ve felt excitement about graduation in my senior year of college.My mother's terminal illness overshadowed it instead.As I watched her health deteriorate, I...





